Monday, October 9, 2017

3rd Trimester Pregnancy Update

Ok... How is it already towards the end of my pregnancy?? Holy Cow! Growing a baby really does go by fast. You have no idea how much I want this baby out! Haha. I just feel so huge, but of course, I want to meet her. 

I am now seeing my doctor every week to get a check-up on how Baby Wheeler and mommy are doing. I've made it this far in my pregnancy and if she were to come today, I feel good knowing she will be born healthy. My doctor told me that I could have her by my 39th week, but we will see. Babies are unpredictable and you never know when they will arrive.

I have definitely gotten big during my 3rd trimester and will probably keep getting bigger... My belly grew into a basketball! Mostly just straight out. My baby bump is definitely noticeable now. I have gained about 28 pounds so far during this pregnancy. A lot of people have told me that I do not look big, but boy, do I feel it. This baby is taking up so much room in my belly. Not to mention, everything is stretching. It's gotten to a point where I have gotten embarrassing stretch marks on my belly. Sometimes it is hard for me to get comfortable. I always have to change sitting and laying down positions in order to get more comfortable. Everyday, I am literally walking like a penguin. I wonder if it's just me or if people are noticing that I waddle. I've gotten to a point where a lot of my clothes don't fit me anymore. Even some of my maternity clothes have gotten too small... Whenever I find that some of my old clothes work for maternity, I get happy. :)

One major symptom I have had during this trimester is tiredness. I probably look like I have aged about 10 years... I've been getting bags under my eyes. I don't know if it's just because I have to get up at least 3 times in the middle of the night to go pee, but I just always feel tired. Everything I do I have to take slowly because of how tired I get. I have to sit or lay down once in a while. I also get winded more easily because of how big I've gotten. I try to take naps during the day and try to go to bed earlier, which is something I need to work on. I know I need to reserve my energy for when it is time to give birth. I probably have to get used to being sleep deprived, because we won't be getting much sleep after the baby comes.

No doubt about it, I am hungry all the time! I am so glad that the nausea has basically subsided during this trimester. Therefore, I have had a good appetite. I feel like I have to eat every so often or else I get shaky. I can eat maybe 2 or 3 helpings of food. Not to mention, food cravings. I always crave sushi, steak, french fries, smoothies, and sweet treats. Since it's fall, I have been craving soup. Whenever it's soup weather, I take advantage of it and make soup.  

There has been an increase in my body temperature. When you are growing another human being, there is always extra heat. It doesn't help that I live in Texas and it literally doesn't cool down until October... By the time the baby arrives, it will probably get cooler. The AC is always on, day and night. Otherwise, I get super hot and sweaty. I also don't go on walks if it's too hot outside. I try to make that more of a priority since I need to exercise.

I've had a roller coaster of emotions during the past 9 months. In particular, during this trimester. The tears just come out of nowhere. As my due date gets closer, I start getting emotional. Mostly because it's hitting me that we are getting closer to meeting our baby girl. The thought constantly goes through my mind of how I will be as a parent. It's mostly happy emotions that turn into tears. Once the tears come, they don't stop. Whenever I am stressed out or overwhelmed with something, I start to cry. The pregnancy hormones have really kicked in this time around. Guarantee I will be a wreck once I am giving birth.

Did I mention pregnancy brain?? It really is the real deal! I have moments where I am a lot more forgetful. I have my funny ditzy moments. We were at Ikea a few weeks ago and I thought I forgot my water bottle inside. Come to find out I had it in my hands the whole time. I am also extremely uncoordinated. I knocked over my neighbor's trash can with my car not too long ago! I was just getting the mail and I guess I didn't realize I parked to close to the trash can. Luckily my neighbors were nice as I came out and frantically said, "I am so sorry!" I was so humiliated. I drove away crying because pregnancy hormones but I just felt horrible for what happened. I look back on it and laugh now. At least people are nice to pregnant women even when they have their "pregnancy brain" moments.

In the beginning of September, we took our maternity pictures. We asked an old friend of ours from our previous ward, Marco Hanson, to take our photos. After planning and coordinating times, the pictures turned out so stunning! He did a great job taking some breathtaking photos. We couldn't be happier with them and will cherish this special memory forever. They really capture just how excited we are to have our first child. We are going to frame one of them in our nursery. 

The baby's nursery is almost complete! The colors in our nursery include pink, mint green, gold, and gray. I guess it's kind of a chic theme? I haven't really decided on a theme, but knew what colors I wanted. I think our wedding colors inspired me. :) I feel like it's really coming together and hope that Baby Girl will be comfortable in it. Pics of the completed nursery are coming real soon! 

During my 36 week appointment, we got to see our baby one last time on the sonogram. The next time we see her, she will be born! Our sweet girl is very healthy and active. She kicks so much now and sometimes hard. It's fun when she has the hiccups. Collin likes to tickle my belly and that gets her to move. She is most active probably in the afternoon and at night. (Which means she maybe a night owl...) I have recently given her the nickname "Little Foot" because she is always moving her feet around in my tummy. We also call her Junior and Baby Girl. The ultrasound tech spotted quite a bit of hair with our kiddo. We both thought that it was interesting to see. If she does have a lot of hair, she will definitely take after her mom. She had her hands on her face the whole time. The ultrasound tech had to massage my stomach a little to get her to move her hands. She eventually did and we got a glimpse of her cute face. We both think that she is going to look like me. She also has a good size head and belly and at the time weighed 6 pounds 3 ounces. Every appointment I go to, I love listening to hear her heartbeat via Doppler or ultrasound. She is just perfect and we can't wait for the day when we can see what she looks like in person.


This will be the last post about my pregnancy. Also, this will be the last post for this blog. It won't be "Just the Two of Us" for very much longer. I am going to start a family blog. If you have any name suggestions for my new blog, let me know. I love hearing other people's ideas. I really can't believe we are going to be parents soon! It probably will be any day. For now, I am taking things one baby step at a time. I know that things will work out in the end, because Heavenly Father is on our side cheering us on! I always get a reassurance from him whenever I feel nervous or unsure about our future. He has been so good to us this past year and during our marriage. It's been a fun ride! Now to start our next step into parenthood...


 28 weeks. Entering the 3rd trimester





 Chloe loves snuggling with the baby. :)





 32 weeks





 The beginning of our nursery, along with our baby shower gifts.





 Building the baby's dresser we got from Ikea




 Coming along, but not complete yet...





 It looks better now without all the stuff on the floor




 I decided to put together some old decorations and put it in the nursery





 I made those headbands for our baby girl!




 Maternity Pictures! Collin was probably whispering something funny in my ear.





 Collin helped by using a leaf blower for my hair. Good touch!





 We waited almost 2 years for this baby, and it will be well worth it!





 Cute pink shoes for our baby girl





 I love how Collin is looking at me











 Big, round belly...





 My little sunshine





 I love how tender and sweet this photo is





 My favorite of us




 We didn't want to leave out Chloe! Our baby is going to love her





 Hey, we had to practice swaddling somehow...





 Awww...





 We took a childbirth and a newborn class. In our newborn class, we practiced on a baby doll on how to properly care for a baby





 With all of my crazy cravings, I manage to fit in a healthy meal









 36 weeks with my sonogram photos
 




 There's her hair!





 "Little Foot"





 Her sweet face





 Also has a pretty good profile









 I finally cut my hair! Funny story behind this photo. I may look freaked out because I was freaking out! I stood on a fire ant hill and they bit my right foot! It burned so bad. I nearly cried... I can now see why people say they're nasty.





 It was my goal to make a hair donation and I finally was able to meet that goal. I donated 10 inches of my hair to Pantene for someone with cancer who needs a wig. I also decided to get a "mom cut" right before the baby comes.





 I made it to the final stage of pregnancy! 37 weeks!! This maybe the last bump photo unless the baby comes late.


Thanks for joining us on our journey! See you in my next blog!

 





Thursday, September 7, 2017

Hurricane Harvey

During the last weekend of August, a huge storm hit Houston/Southeast Texas called Hurricane Harvey. It rained so hard that it caused massive flooding. Homes and buildings were being flooded. People had to evacuate because of how high the water was. I heard on the news that it was about 50 inches of water! The water looked as high as the traffic lights. People had to travel by boats in search of people needing transportation. None of us could believe how much impact the hurricane had on Houston. Thousands of people were left homeless and needing comfort. 

When the hurricane was still going on, it came our way towards central Texas. It was nonstop rain and strong wind for 2 days straight. I was almost worried it would flood here too. Luckily, we live on high ground and the storm didn't affect our area. We were overall safe, but still had to be careful when going out and about. 

I was grateful that we weren't in any danger, but my heart instantly went to those suffering from Hurricane Harvey. The floods caused a lot of damage to houses and people's belongings.  I instantly knew that I wanted to do something to help Houston out. Also, Collin served his mission in Houston so he wanted to find ways to help as well.

Luckily, people stepped up to help right away! Our church started searching for opportunities to serve those who are in great need. Our leaders sent us emails about what kind of items we can donate to Houston. We decided to put together emergency supplies and donate it to a church in Austin. It was small bag of items, but we know that someone out there will greatly appreciate our donation. It's the little acts of kindness that go a long way. My heart feels so full that people want to start helping so quickly. We pray for Houston everyday to be safe and comforted. 

 The church where we made our donation. This picture doesn't do it justice, but there are so many bins filled with emergency supplies. So many people have made such incredible donations!





 Some of the things we have donated

Wheeler Baby Shower!

First of all, it's September!!! That means Baby Girl Wheeler will be here in about 1 month! It's crazy how fast my pregnancy is going by. 

On the 2nd of September, we decided to make that day my baby shower. I had no idea what my friends were planning so everything was a surprise. I gave them ideas on my pinterest account, but other than that, I had no clue. I come by and see that everything was neatly decorated with gold stars, pink and gold pom poms, and a pink table with gold dots and goodies. :) We added baby/couple pictures of Collin and I framed around the house. It was so beautiful and perfectly fitted for a baby girl. 

Of course, we also had some photo opportunities. There was a pink background put up where we can have a photo booth. Kudos to Amazon for having such amazing photo props! (Not to mention they are cheap.) We used both a digital and Polaroid camera to make the photo booth extra special. A big thank you to my friend/host Hailey who let us use her Polaroid camera. I want one someday!

We played a few fun, creative games during my shower. My friend McKenna is brilliant at putting games together. :) Since there were people there from different wards, we played a get-to-know-you game. This helped us become better acquainted with one another. We basically found things that we had in common with someone else. Things like favorite color and TV show, life accomplishments, etc. We had these cute magic wands to find each other. 

In between games, we would take snack breaks and photos at the photo booth. The second game we played was a Disney princess quote quiz. I am a Disney fanatic so I was excited to take this quiz. You had to match the quote to the Disney princess who said it. I ended up getting 100%! I thought it was a clever idea to put together for a baby girl shower.

Later, it was time to open presents. I ended up getting such nice gifts. Most of them included diapers which is what we needed. We even had some gifts delivered to us from long distance family members. They couldn't make it to the shower, but it was so sweet of them to buy gifts for our sweet little baby.

There was overall a great turnout of people that could make it. I am so thankful for my sweet friends who put together my baby shower. It's times like these that I am grateful to be near such amazing friends when we live so far away from family. Everything turned out so great and my baby and I felt so loved. Now it's time to get everything ready. Baby Girl will be here in just 7 weeks!



                                             Sign on the Door





LOVED the pompoms!




With baby pictures and more gifts





Our pictures. Weren't we cute??





My little squirmy girl
  




Snack table. Everything was yummy.





Twinkle, twinkle little star















I approve






Love these ladies!




Playing the get-to-know-you game, using magic wands



I love the photo props I received from Amazon!




Photo Booth Fun






















Using Polaroids. Such fun pictures!









Almost time for presents!












I got a nursing cover from my in laws, Miles and Mikaela!





Diaper bag from my mom.





More presents from my mom. :) She's the best!




Group photo. Special thanks to Emily Eldredge for having us over at her beautiful home.